2: What is Dating & Relationship Trauma – and the Signs of Trauma in your Relationship and Children?

Signs of Trauma in relationships are explored in depth in this show; starting with the problems of Chemistry and how sabotaging Behaviors relate to past childhood trauma.

I review the 10 traumas that many people experienced during the childhood and teen years, and a bit about my story – and what led me to the research on this topic.

Many Successful Businesspeople come from traumatic pasts – we go into why and what are the positive and negative traits of many successful people and use celebrity documented case studies. The rules in business don’t match those in Love; one of the key reasons successful people have toxic relationships.

Lastly, I go into how Childhood Trauma goes through the generations, that forgiveness is key to healing, and how many school children are mislabeled at school due to the toxic homelife that they endure. I offer some strategies for students, as I worked as a SAC – Student Assistance Counselor for all grades, K – college, and saw many signs of trauma in struggling students. Then I offer some insight into how to Heal and Grow beyond the impact of Childhood Trauma.

 

Books/Resources I use: 

1. LIVE Beyond Your Dreams – From Fear and Doubt to Personal Power, Purpose & Success – by Riana Milne & Alexi Panos http://amzn.to/2SiC2jC 

 2. LOVE Beyond Your Dreams – Break Free of Toxic Relationships to Have the Love You Deserve – by Riana Milne https://amzn.to/2Vab0wF 

 3. Daily Affirmations for Adult Children of Alcoholics – by Rokelle Lerner https://amzn.to/2ReGy5t

4. The Sociopath Next Door – The Ruthless vs the Rest of Us by Dr. Martha Stout https://amzn.to/2CEzery

5. Life Code – The New Rules for Living in the Real World by Dr. Phil McGraw https://amzn.to/2SkAy8m

6. The Peter Pan Syndrome – Men Who Have Never Grown Up by Dodd Mead https://amzn.to/2CDr2rF

7. Wing Man – The Ultimate Guide to Getting the Woman of Your Dreams – by Rich Celenza https://amzn.to/2VeYP1v

8. Too Busy to Get Busy: How to Fix your (Almost) Sexless Relationship – by Jan Guyn, PhD, RN https://amzn.to/2BNOBMR

9. A Course in Miracles – Combined Volume – Foundation for Inner Peace https://amzn.to/2s0dQXG

10. Calling in the One – 7 Weeks to Attract the Love of Your Life https://amzn.to/2SoyRXB

11. The Secret DVD by Rhonda Byrne https://amzn.to/2CE2Rcu 

 

Website: www.RianaMilne.com  

Podcast website: www.LessonsinLifeandLove.com

Facebook: Coach Riana Milne  

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachrianamilne/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/rianamilne

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/rianamilne/  

App: https://app.rianamilne.com/  

#Relationships #Anxiety #ACOA #Abandonment #RianaMilne #ChildhoodTrauma #AbusiveRelationships #ToxicRelationships #Divorce #LoveTrauma #Codependent #AbusiveRelationshipSigns #NarcissticPartner #Dating #SinglesCoaching  #TerrianaMilne #HealthyLove #EmotionalTrauma #LifeCoach #LoveCoach #PersonalTransformation #RelationshipCoach #LifeafterDivorce #EmotionalAbuse #VerbalAbuse #Addiction #Depression #AdultChildrenfromAbuse #ManipulativeHusbands #ToxicParents

 

 

1: Why 90% of Adults Struggle in Life & Love

The first show of Lessons in Life & Love goes into the reason so many Adults are impacted by past Childhood, Family and Relationship Trauma. The 10 most common Traumas are identified, and how they show up in both Life and Love relationships; like why so many Successful people struggle in Love; and the Negative and Positive traits of Successful people with Childhood Trauma. 

I discuss the problems with falling in Love by Chemistry alone, what is the Toxic Cycle of Abuse and Pain, and how to transform from pain to joy. 

Lastly, I explain that Childhood Trauma does go through the generations, and how important it is to get help for your children and teens showing signs of trauma (anxiety, depression, eating disorders, engaging in risky sex and other behaviors).

I offer some suggestions for Healthy Transformation. 

 Books/Resources I use: 

1. LIVE Beyond Your Dreams – From Fear and Doubt to Personal Power, Purpose & Success – by Riana Milne & Alexi Panos http://amzn.to/2SiC2jC 

 2. LOVE Beyond Your Dreams – Break Free of Toxic Relationships to Have the Love You Deserve – by Riana Milne https://amzn.to/2Vab0wF 

 3. Daily Affirmations for Adult Children of Alcoholics – by Rokelle Lerner https://amzn.to/2ReGy5t

4. The Sociopath Next Door – The Ruthless vs the Rest of Us by Dr. Martha Stout https://amzn.to/2CEzery

5. Life Code – The New Rules for Living in the Real World by Dr. Phil McGraw https://amzn.to/2SkAy8m

6. The Peter Pan Syndrome – Men Who Have Never Grown Up by Dodd Mead https://amzn.to/2CDr2rF

7. Wing Man – The Ultimate Guide to Getting the Woman of Your Dreams – by Rich Celenza https://amzn.to/2VeYP1v

8. Too Busy to Get Busy: How to Fix your (Almost) Sexless Relationship – by Jan Guyn, PhD, RN https://amzn.to/2BNOBMR

9. A Course in Miracles – Combined Volume – Foundation for Inner Peace https://amzn.to/2s0dQXG

10. Calling in the One – 7 Weeks to Attract the Love of Your Life https://amzn.to/2SoyRXB

11. The Secret DVD by Rhonda Byrne https://amzn.to/2CE2Rcu 

 

Website: www.RianaMilne.com  

Podcast website: www.LessonsinLifeandLove.com

Facebook: Coach Riana Milne  

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachrianamilne/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/rianamilne

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/rianamilne/  

App: https://app.rianamilne.com/  

#Relationships #Anxiety #ACOA #Abandonment #RianaMilne #ChildhoodTrauma #AbusiveRelationships #ToxicRelationships #Divorce #LoveTrauma #Codependent #AbusiveRelationshipSigns #NarcissticPartner #Dating #SinglesCoaching  #TerrianaMilne #HealthyLove #EmotionalTrauma #LifeCoach #LoveCoach #PersonalTransformation #RelationshipCoach #LifeafterDivorce #EmotionalAbuse #VerbalAbuse #Addiction #Depression #AdultChildrenfromAbuse #ManipulativeHusbands #ToxicParents

 

 

Show 0: Introduction to Lessons in Life & Love

Lessons in Life & Love shows you How to Create the Life You Desire and to Have the Emotionally Healthy, Evolved & Conscious Relationship you Deserve. My mission is to help build your knowledge, confidence, and success in both Life and Love.

Research shows 90% of Adults struggle in life & love due to past Family or Relationship Trauma. Conscious self-awareness and a positive mindset can help you overcome past pain, negativity, fears, lack of Trust, Codependency, Emotional Triggers and Anxiety – and more.

I’m Coach Riana Milne, known as “The Life & Love Transformation Expert.” I’m a Certified, global Life, Dating & Relationship Coach, Licensed Mental Health Counselor & Certified Clinical Trauma & Addictions Professional.

I’m also Best Selling Author and taught Personal Transformation topics for over 38 years.

This podcast is ideal for women who are Successful in Business but Struggle in Love; yet much of the content applies to men too.

I also do a Live Radio version of Lessons in Life & Love on Bold Brave Media.com every Monday, from 6:00-7:00 PM EST – and you can join me for the live show by visiting the link: http://boldbravemedia.com/ During my live show, you may call in at 866-451-1451 to ask me your question LIVE on the radio show. Or, simply email me at LessonsinLifeandLoveShow@gmail.com to give me your questions and I will answer it on the following show for you.

Each week, the podcast version of my show will be posted on Friday morning, so you have the weekend to listen to another Lesson in Life and Love. These shows will be anywhere from 30 minutes to 1 hour, and I may do a brief lesson from time to time.

I hope you listen each week and give me your comments and feedback. I also truly appreciate you rating the show on the listening platform of your choice.

This show is for YOU. So please, ask me your questions, and please engage; and share this show with others, who you know are suffering in either Life or Love – I need your help in my mission to Help the Way the World Loves in a more Emotionally Healthy, Evolved & Conscious way!

So…. Love Angels & Transformers – Are you ready to Create the Life You Desire & Have the Love You Deserve?

Then Welcome to the podcast of – Lessons in Life & Love!

 

Books/Resources I use: 

1. LIVE Beyond Your Dreams – From Fear and Doubt to Personal Power, Purpose & Success – by Riana Milne & Alexi Panos http://amzn.to/2SiC2jC 

 2. LOVE Beyond Your Dreams – Break Free of Toxic Relationships to Have the Love You Deserve – by Riana Milne https://amzn.to/2Vab0wF 

 3. Daily Affirmations for Adult Children of Alcoholics – by Rokelle Lerner https://amzn.to/2ReGy5t

4. The Sociopath Next Door – The Ruthless vs the Rest of Us by Dr. Martha Stout https://amzn.to/2CEzery

5. Life Code – The New Rules for Living in the Real World by Dr. Phil McGraw https://amzn.to/2SkAy8m

6. The Peter Pan Syndrome – Men Who Have Never Grown Up by Dodd Mead https://amzn.to/2CDr2rF

7. Wing Man – The Ultimate Guide to Getting the Woman of Your Dreams – by Rich Celenza https://amzn.to/2VeYP1v

8. Too Busy to Get Busy: How to Fix your (Almost) Sexless Relationship – by Jan Guyn, PhD, RN https://amzn.to/2BNOBMR

9. A Course in Miracles – Combined Volume – Foundation for Inner Peace https://amzn.to/2s0dQXG

10. Calling in the One – 7 Weeks to Attract the Love of Your Life https://amzn.to/2SoyRXB

11. The Secret DVD by Rhonda Byrne https://amzn.to/2CE2Rcu 

 

Website: www.RianaMilne.com  

Podcast website: www.LessonsinLifeandLove.com

Facebook: Coach Riana Milne  

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachrianamilne/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/rianamilne

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/rianamilne/  

App: https://app.rianamilne.com/  

#Relationships #Anxiety #ACOA #Abandonment #RianaMilne #ChildhoodTrauma #AbusiveRelationships #ToxicRelationships #Divorce #LoveTrauma #Codependent #AbusiveRelationshipSigns #NarcissticPartner #Dating #SinglesCoaching  #TerrianaMilne #HealthyLove #EmotionalTrauma #LifeCoach #LoveCoach #PersonalTransformation #RelationshipCoach #LifeafterDivorce #EmotionalAbuse #VerbalAbuse #Addiction #Depression #AdultChildrenfromAbuse #ManipulativeHusbands #ToxicParents